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An unfinished list of tips on existing without losing the plot.

Why should u care?

You shouldn’t.

But if you’re reading this, maybe you’re also trying to make sense of yourself like a half-broken app still pushing updates.

No order. No categories. Probably even duplicates or contradictions. Just things I wish someone had told me earlier, or not at all.

Scroll. Skim. Steal what fits, delete the rest.

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The list - in no particular order

Freedom requires space - physical, mental, creative.

Depth means skipping performative small talk.

Make things that leave fingerprints.

Being seen is oxygen, not ego.

Stability feeds creativity more than chaos ever does.

Start before it’s perfect.

Most risks are just slightly uncomfortable choices.

Regret weighs more than failure.

Ambition without movement becomes anxiety.

Be kind, even when the world runs on irony.

Good things don’t need to be new - just good.

If something stalls, change the environment.

Movement fixes more than motivation ever will.

Apologies are maintenance, not weakness.

Use hands, not just screens.

Close eyes to think; open them to act.

Say what’s true - silence rarely saves anyone.

Invest in moments, not noise.

Spend on connection, tools, and time, not status.

Music counts as medicine.

The world isn’t owed constant replies.

Routine is optional; awareness isn’t.

Potential is useless without presence.

Every skill either maintains survival or sparks evolution.

Choose the ones that change the system, not just sustain it.

Learning happens in struggle, not perfection.

Build first, study after.

Share the bad ideas; they lead to the real ones.

Doubt ist a direction - follow it until it breaks.

Romanticize the ordinrary: lists, light, solitude, small wins.

Engagement beats meaning - act, don’t analyze.

Growth is repetition done consciously.

Sunlight early, movement often.

Keep a “last time I saw them” list.

Say sorry fast.

Add a comma in passwords.

Change locations when stuck.

Read something real.

Write by hand sometimes.

Take invitations.

Go outside even when it rains.

Strength grows slower than pride fades.

Be strong quietly.

Have a scent.

Own fewer things, but better ones.

Friction means life is happening.

Sleep is strategy, not laziness.

Silence can heal or rot - use it right.

Don’t worship productivity.

Revisit what used to inspire.

Don’t fake empathy.

Don’t fight every argument.

You dont owe the world an opinion.

Don’t explain boundaries.

Risk small embarassments often.

Work less for things that won’t remember you.

Ask what matters, not what performs.

Time with people beats time on feed.

Create for connection, not applause.

Growth hides in boredom.

The algorithm isn’t your memory.

Keep a digital sunset.

Be reachable, not available.

Laugh at control.

Let people misunderstand.

Beauty isn’t optional.

Write the bad drafts.

Talk about your ideas before they’re ready.

Build systems that fit, not impress.

Rest is maintenance.

Meaning comes from repetition, not novelty.

Don’t chase intensity; chase consistency.

Help people quietly.

Tell the truth even if it’s messy.

Carry curiosity like a tool.

Every day has at least one good sentence - find it.

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Nothing here is final, the patch never ends.